Originally posted 10/28/2013
I went into retail straight out of high school. I stayed in that horrid industry for the next 14 years. During that time I witnessed copious amounts of stupidity. Sometimes, not surprisingly, that stupidity was my own.
Not long after I started working for the largest retail chain in the world (AKA The Mecca – shout out to Evil Squirrel), I was deemed trustworthy enough to run an entire department. By myself. Obviously these guys didn’t know that I could barely keep my room organized, balance a checkbook, or put my shoes on the correct feet and they were going to give me an entire department to run? I guess my hard work, dedication, and massive intelligence duly impressed the management team. Or, as is more likely, I was the best of a plethora of unqualified candidates.
I was given the keys to the automotive department (get it? ha!), which would have been great if I had known the first thing about cars. At that point in my life the only thing I could successfully do to a car was fill it with gas and turn the ignition switch. Oh, and wreck it. I didn’t know the first thing about routine maintenance, car audio, or even how to properly apply a fresh coat of Turtle Wax®. I was, quite frankly, ill-equipped to perform this job. Luckily I’m a quick learner and within a couple of months I could adequately answer questions about the products we carried.
During those first couple of months, however, there were some growing pains. Not long after I accepted the position I was out on the sales floor placing orders for motor oil when a tall gentleman dressed simply in a flannel shirt and a pair of worn blue jeans approached me with an inquiry. “Do you guys carry bras?”
Of course we carry bras, you dolt, this is the largest retail chain in the world. We carry everything! We have an entire lingerie department!
I was befuddled by the man’s question. I mean, I could answer it, but I wasn’t sure why he was asking me. In the motor oil aisle of all places. Shouldn’t he be asking someone in the apparel department? You know, where the clothes are? Where the underwear is? Furthermore, why is this man shopping for bras? Is he a cross-dresser? Am I in the presence of a weirdo?
Doing my best not to convey what an idiot I thought this man was with my tone, I timidly responded. “Yes, we carry bras, but they’re over in the lingerie department. . .”
He chuckled. “No, not those bras.”
I was stumped. What other kind of bras are there? What kind of ass have I just made of myself?
“I meant car bras,” he explained.
The utterly bewildered expression on my face must have betrayed the fact that I had absolutely no freakin’ clue what he was talking about because he continued. “You know, the things that go over the front of a car? Over the headlights?”

Somewhere deep in my cavernous mind a light bulb flickered to life. I finally knew what he was talking about. I immediately began wondering why in the hell they’re called bras. What a dumb name for something that goes on a car. Then, the ardent shame of embarrassment began burning my cheeks and I very swiftly told him that, no, we don’t carry those kind of bras.
I then vanished as quickly as I could manage so that no one else could see my crimson cheeks or learn what I had just so ignorantly done.
Sadly, after having learned what a car bra was, I was never asked that question again as long as I worked there, which is just how my luck goes.
I am laughing and I am sorry you were embarrassed! Great story. And now we all know what a car bra is. 🙂
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Some things you just learn the hard way. 😉
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And remember them well. (Look what you did – you brought smiles and laughter via something you learned the hard way. Awesome!)
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I know! Yay!
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And here I always thought that bras were supposed to keep the headlights covered….
And on that subject…. where would you find the cleavage on a car?
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It’s buried somewhere in the grill, I think.
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I guess you need the car Wonderbra to flesh it out….
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Push those puppies up.
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If we ever meet, I will definitely ask you about car bras. You’re welcome.
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Well I know what they are NOW. I don’t understand why you’d want one, though…
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Maybe his headlights were looking a little droopy
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Headlight sag is the worst.
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Ha! I’ve seen them TD but it’s been some years. Honestly, I likely wouldn’t have clicked either, and would have sent the man to the women’s wear dept. It is not a common request – as you noted. if I had been asking for one, i would have described it first and then named it. No shame there TD.
Funny post. Thanks.
Oh, as an aside TD , I recently wrote a couple of guest posts and I’d be delighted if you could find the time to drop by for a read: one is at Cordelia’s Mom http://cordeliasmomstill.com/2014/11/06/serendipity-guest-post-by-paul-curran/ and the other at Mindful Digressions http://mindfuldigressions.com/2014/11/06/of-breasts-and-bananas/?c=20767 Thanks so much TD.
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No, no shame. But there is hilarity. And I love to laugh.
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um, yea being a female I carry bra’s …. oh you ain’t talking about breast holders… 😉
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Not this time.
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Hubby had a bra on his ’83 Nissan 200SX. He armour-all’d the shit out of that thing.
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I’m not really a car guy. As long as my car gets me where I’m going I like it. I was it in the car wash. Don’t really Armor All it. Or wax it…
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He was 19 and a total Gino. This might be a regional reference. I’m sure there’s an Ohioan equivalent. 🙂
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I think it is. When you say Gino I’m thinking a vajayjay doctor….
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Yes, I carry a bra.
Oh…woops. Is this thing on?
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It’s what you carry IN the bra that matters. I think. Wait, I got this all wrong.
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There’s got to be another name for it but I’m afraid to Google it.
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Good call.
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Ha,ha! Never heard of that kind of bra either. What’s the purpose of those kinds of bras anyway? Support?
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I guess they look good? I don’t know…
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I have never EVER heard of one of those…I don’t think we have them in England. What do they DO?
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I think its aesthetic. I don’t think there’s a practical purpose.
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It’s AESTHETIC?!?!?!? Oh wow…
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I’ve been informed they’re to protect the front of the car from bugs and other debris from damaging the car.
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*crosses eyes* they can’t just wash them?
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That’s what I do….
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They’re supposed to keep all the bugs and other debris that otherwise would end up scratching the front of the car. This is sexist. Is there a car jock?
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Tony Stewart is probably available.
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I would have made the same assumption. I mean, any employee in the store should know everything about anything they carry, right?
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You would assume that, but that’s not the case these days.
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I remember you telling this story before. Thank you for sharing it again. I don’t understand why people do things like that to their cars. It just makes them look silly.
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I wouldn’t do it, that’s for sure.
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